When two men get really angry at one another, the issue can be instantly resolved with a fist fight, and usually the two men that fight will become friends afterwards. A mutual respect is found when you engage in hand to hand combat with another person, maybe one guy thought the other was weak and was surprised by the skill of the other man.
Women on the other hand don't usually get into fist fights. Some do engage in fighting but they are mostly a small group of women. Women like to look nice, and they take time doing their hair and makeup, they also take a lot of pride in what they wear and like to be clean for the most part. Getting into a fight with another woman means that they would have to risk looking ugly and ruining their clothes with blood stains and possible tears, plus all the hard work they have done to make themselves look beautiful.
Women take an alternative approach to fist fighting, they will instead try to ruin your reputation with lies and rumors, they will slowly plot and plan their revenge and get your friends to turn on you with some clever defamation. Claiming that they saw you making out with someone else's boyfriend, or that you stole something valuable from her house when you were over, anything to make you look bad to other people.
If a guy gets a woman really upset she could claim that he sexually assaulted her, or abused her in public, maybe she will say that he tried to beat her. Women can also spread lies and rumors about a guy to his peers as well, to make him look bad in front of his peers. I read a story about how a woman claimed she was pregnant after she found out her boyfriend cheated on her and told people he kicked her in the gut and she miscarried, the boyfriend went to jail over the ordeal but was later released when they found out the whole story was a lie.
Of course not all women have this type of temper to totally destroy someone else's life, but there are quite a few of them out there and the problem with that is you never know which one she will be. It's probably best to try to avoid that situation altogether and steer clear of making them extremely angry in the first place.
Scott Goerz
